Save the Date
Darren & Gemma
01
NOV
2025
Trevenna Barn
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Let us know if you can join us for our big day
Information
Information about the venue, parking, day and more
Order of the day
When all the juicy bits are taking place!
welcome to our wedding
From DARREN & GEMMA
Thank you for visiting our wedding website, if you are here it probably means we have extended an invitation to you. We are extremely excited to have you share our wonderful day with us. The venue is a short drive from St Neots in Cornwall at the fabulous Trevenna Barns.
Once you recieve your invitation please complete the RSVP form below to confirm you attendance. For those who are joining us on the Friday 31 October there is information under ‘Staying Guests’ in the ‘Other information’ part of this website. For everyone else please arrive at 12pm on Saturday 1 Nov, there is further information below.
We hope you all have a fantastic day, it means the absolute world to us to share our most special occasion with the people we love the most.
Darren, Gem & Edith
Thank You
Staying guests
Due to the limited space available we can only offer rooms to some of our guests. If you have received an invitation to join us on Friday 31st October you can find information about your stay, evening meal and facilities here.
What time should we arrive?
If you are invited to the pre-wedding event (Friday 31st October) please arrive from 4pm onwards and check-in to the barns and farmhouse, visit the Mowhay to do this.
What about food?
Upon your arrival there will be welcome treats served in the Mowhay from 4pm. The Mowhay bar will also be open then so grab youself a refreshment and let the party begin!
There is an evening meal which is due to take place in the Mowhay from 7pm. This consists of a woodfired BBQ dinner and dessert, all guests to attend.
Mowhay bar closes at 11pm.
Morning breakfast to be served in the Mowhay from 9am on both Saturday 1st Nov and Sunday 2nd Nov.
We advise you to bring extra snacks and drinks for your rooms in case you get peckish. Be advised that Gem will find the best ones so they better be hidden well!!
Payment for rooms
Guests will be sent a hostology link where they can pay the set amount for their room. Please complete payment by the end of June, otherwise rooms will have to be reallocated.
Can I bring my own alcohol?
You can bring your own drinks with you, however the rules of Trevenna state that no alcohol can be brought into the public areas of the venue, so please keep alcohol within your own accomodation.
What to wear?
Feel free to dress casually for the welcome dinner.
What time is check-out?
All guests must have left Trevenna by 11am on Sunday 2nd Nov.
Main
Choose one of the following;
- Chicken, tarragon, crispy pancetta, layered potatoes and mushrooms
- Woodfired beef brisket, honey and thyme carrot, roast potatoes and yorkshire pudding
- Squash and beetroot wellington, cubed rosemary potatoes, kale and pinenut pesto (V can be VG)
Dessert
Choose one of the following;
- Lemon panna cotta, meringue crumble and seasonal fruit drizzle
- Sticky toffee pudding, toffee sauce and clotted cream
Childrens menu
Children’s menu is fixed, if choices aren’t suitable select from the adults menu;
- Starter: Sticks and dips board
- Main: Chicken goujons in breadcrumb, chips and peas
- Dessert: Cornish vanilla ice cream
Our
Love
Story
It’s not a secret that Gemma and Darren first met over a well known dating app, what is a closely kept secret is who super-liked who first…
Our first date was on 20 February 2021, right in the midst of Covid, our first few dates consisted of some experimental cooking that must have done the trick as Gemma decided to keep coming back to Plymouth for further dates.
After our long-distance (by Janner terms) first few months and a holiday to Tenerife – which by all accounts Darren was lucky to survive – Gemma moved to Plymouth in September 2021. In the years since we’ve adopted a little furball Edith, who may make an appearance of sorts at our wedding.
We’ve been incredibly lucky to travel to some beautiful places during our relationship. We’ve joined our friends in a stunning wedding location in Poland, we’ve caught the night train across to Prague and back in December 2023 whilst in New York, at the ‘Top of the Rock’ Gemma agreed, after initial shock, to marriage.
Top of the rock
It’s been fast forward these past couple of years’ since our engagement, the time is coming upon us quickly and as we countdown to our special day we are very thankful for the help from friends and family. We are both incredibly excited for our wedding day, and even more grateful to have so many brilliant people to share it with.
Order of service
On the day
8:45am
Bridal breakfast
9am
Morning Before Breakfast for all staying guests in the Mowhay
12pm
Mowhay Bar Opens for pre-ceremony drinks. Guests arrive
1pm
Ceremony (in the Mowhay)
1:30pm
Celebration reception, canapes & photography
3pm
Wedding Feast in the Garden Venue
7pm
Cut cake, first dance and the fun begins!
9pm
Evening munchies
12pm
Taxis
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01 / NOV / 2025